thoughts about parenting

So I understand that parenting isn't easy.  Kids are getting bigger, they are testing their limits constantly, trying to take on more responsibilities.  But we must encourage them to learn and grow without tearing them down by name calling or demeaning them in any way.  We need to make sure that we support them in learning new things.  They need to know to follow the rules, but if they mess up, they are not stupid for it.